12 Manners to get respect from others
The Golden word is “Mannerism make a man,
good manners make a good man.”
Sometimes, even educated people behave
unnatural way even in trifle matters and become cheap in the eyes of others. So
to avoid such embarrassing situations, it is well and good to observe the
following 12 points and be dignified.
- Never read the letters of even your closest relatives, friends,
and family members like brothers / sisters. If you read their letters,
they will treat you a person without manners.
- Never show interest in others personal matters and do not read
their personal diaries.
- Never see their SMSs in their cell phones and also their money
purses.
- Don’t see their albums, unless they request you to see them and
also not pass your comments about the album’s nature and external
appearance.
- Switch off the cell phones or keep them in silent mode, when
you are attending the official meetings, cultural programmes and also
during dinner times in the presence of guests.
- Whenever guest visit your home, open the door and invite them
politely and walk behind them (not in front of them) and make them be
seated comfortably either in the chairs or in a sofa.
- Whenever you go to your friend’s house, take with you, sweets
and fruits and for the children biscuits and chocolates etc.
- Whenever anyone visits your home, usually they bring something
for you and to your children also and you also reciprocate them in the
same manner.
- Whenever you have taken help from others, express your
gratitude by saying words like, ‘thanks or please…’, etc. you will get
good impression in their opinion about you. Give tips to waiters in hotels
or restaurants.
- During parties or in functions take the food items along with
the guests (not alone) and also it is good to serve each other and drink
together. It is a good social behaviour.
- While taking coffee, tea or cool drink in the office, always
keep the office files on your left side (not on a right side).
- A simple smile on your face brings laurels and creates good
impression on you in other’s minds; moreover it costs nothing but fetches
everything.
‘Give
respect and take respect’ is a good slogan and keep
it in your mind, wherever you go and whatever your profession and position may
be.
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